When Sexual Appetites Don't Match

🙄The wife feels that sex is dirty and unnatural after having children, leading to a decrease in her libido.

😔The husband has a high sex drive and desires more intimacy, but feels rejected by his wife's lack of interest.

😖The wife's busy schedule and exhaustion contribute to her limited desire for sex.

😡The husband's frustration builds as he feels that his needs are not being met.

🚩Communication and understanding between the couple are essential to find a compromise and improve their sexual relationship.

Why does the wife feel that sex is dirty after having children?

—The wife's perspective on sex has changed after becoming a mother, making her view it as something dirty and inappropriate.

How often does the couple have sex?

—Due to the wife's decreased libido, the couple has sex only once or twice a month.

What is the husband's perspective on their sexual relationship?

—The husband desires more intimacy and feels frustrated and rejected by his wife's lack of interest.

What factors contribute to the wife's lack of desire for sex?

—The wife's busy schedule, exhaustion from work and motherhood, and negative self-perception about her physical appearance contribute to her limited desire for sex.

How can the couple improve their sexual relationship?

—Open communication, understanding, and finding a compromise that works for both partners are key to improving their sexual relationship.

00:00Introduction to the topic of mismatched sexual appetites in relationships.

00:06A couple discusses their struggle with mismatched sexual desires after having children.

02:28Another couple shares their experience of a decreased frequency of sex after having children.

06:01Dr. Phil further explores the reasons behind the wife's lack of interest in sex.

09:12The husband expresses his frustration with the situation.

10:44Dr. Phil discusses the importance of better communication and understanding in the relationship.