The Importance of Trust in the Healing Process

TLDRIn this video, Iyanla Vanzant confronts Miss Jillian about her anger and lack of trust in the healing process. Miss Jillian feels disrespected and abandoned, leading to a breakdown in communication. Without trust, the healing process cannot progress.

Key insights

💔Miss Jillian's anger stems from feelings of powerlessness and an inability to relinquish control.

👥There is a breakdown in communication and trust between Miss Jillian, Mr. Ray, and the production team.

🔄Miss Jillian believes she is being manipulated and staged for dramatic effect.

✋🚫Iyanla emphasizes the importance of trust in the healing process and confronts Miss Jillian about her toxic energy.

💔💔Miss Jillian and Mr. Ray's lack of trust reveals a larger issue in their relationship and their unwillingness to fully engage in the healing process.

Q&A

Why is Miss Jillian angry?

Miss Jillian is angry because she feels disrespected and abandoned by the production team. She believes they staged her to get a reaction from her.

What is the importance of trust in the healing process?

Trust is essential in the healing process because without it, communication breaks down and progress cannot be made. Both the practitioner and the participant need to trust each other and the process.

What is the core issue between Miss Jillian and Mr. Ray?

The core issue between Miss Jillian and Mr. Ray is a lack of trust and a refusal to fully engage in the healing process. They are unwilling to confront their own issues and establish a foundation of trust in their relationship.

How does Iyanla address Miss Jillian's toxic energy?

Iyanla confronts Miss Jillian about her toxic energy and the negative impact it has on the healing process. She emphasizes the need to release that energy in order to make progress.

Why does Miss Jillian decide to leave?

Miss Jillian decides to leave because she no longer trusts the process or the people involved. She feels that her concerns and grievances have not been addressed or resolved.

Timestamped Summary

00:00The transport team was delayed in picking up Miss Jillian, causing her to become agitated.

00:22Iyanla tries to have a clearing conversation with Miss Jillian to address any upset before starting the healing process.

01:00Miss Jillian confronts Iyanla about the unprofessionalism of the production team.

01:49An argument ensues between Miss Jillian and Iyanla, with both feeling disrespected and misunderstood.

03:33Iyanla acknowledges that Miss Jillian's anger stems from feelings of powerlessness and an inability to relinquish control.

04:28Miss Jillian accuses the production team of staging her for dramatic effect, questioning their motives.

05:12The lack of trust and unwillingness to engage in the healing process leads to the premature end of their time together.