The Common Types of Jokes That Make People Dislike You

😬Sharing someone's sensitive information for a laugh can make them dislike you.

😕Verbal hesitation and self-soothing body language are signs of discomfort to look out for when making potentially sensitive jokes.

🙈Ignoring signs of discomfort and plowing ahead with a joke can hurt your relationship with the person you're talking about.

😅Teasing someone close to you, in a way that lifts them up, can strengthen your relationship.

🚫Teasing someone lower in social status or about something they care about can be hurtful and create distance.

What signs should I look for to know if someone is uncomfortable?

—Verbal hesitation and self-soothing body language, such as fidgeting or touching the face, are signs of discomfort.

How can I pivot topics when someone is uncomfortable with a joke?

—Redirect the conversation to a different topic, or turn the joke back on yourself to lighten the mood.

Can I tease someone close to me without hurting our relationship?

—Yes, as long as the teasing is done in a way that makes the other person feel good and doesn't touch on sensitive topics.

Why is it important to avoid teasing people of lower status?

—Teasing someone of lower status can come off as mocking and hurtful, creating distance and potential resentment.

How can I build positive relationships through humor?

—Use humor to lift others up, compliment them, and make them feel good about themselves.

00:00Ellen DeGeneres has been receiving hate on the internet.

02:55Sharing sensitive information for a laugh can make people dislike you.

04:18Verbal hesitation and self-soothing body language are signs of discomfort to look out for.

05:34Ignoring signs of discomfort can hurt your relationship with the person you're joking about.

06:53Teasing someone close to you in a positive way can strengthen your relationship.

07:57Teasing someone of lower status or about something they care about can be hurtful and create distance.

08:44Building positive relationships through humor involves making others feel good about themselves.