🔑Grease the wheels early with a genuine compliment to start conversations on a positive note.
💡Transition between topics using 'reminds me of' prompts to keep conversations interesting.
🗣️Ping for topics of mutual interest to create a connection and keep the conversation engaging.
😄Laugh easily and make others feel good for being funny, even when they're not trying to be.
🔁Mirror the last few words of the other person to make them feel heard and build rapport.
What are some common mistakes to avoid when giving compliments?
—Avoid making compliments too sexual, insincere, or dwelling on them for too long.
How can I transition between topics smoothly during small talk?
—Use 'reminds me of' prompts to transition between topics and keep the conversation flowing.
Why is it important to find topics of mutual interest?
—Finding topics of mutual interest helps create a connection and makes the conversation more enjoyable for both parties.
How can I make others feel good during conversations?
—Laugh easily and make others feel good for being funny, even when they're not intentionally trying to be.
Why is mirroring important in conversations?
—Mirroring the last few words of the other person shows active listening and makes them feel heard, building rapport.
00:00Introduction: Small talk can be awkward and boring, but with these five steps, you can connect with anyone.
00:35Step 1: Grease the wheels with a genuine compliment to start conversations on a positive note.
03:19Step 2: Transition between topics using 'reminds me of' prompts to keep conversations interesting.
07:09Step 3: Find topics of mutual interest to create a connection and keep the conversation engaging.
08:56Step 4: Laugh easily and make others feel good for being funny, even unintentionally.
09:13Step 5: Mirror the last few words of the other person to make them feel heard and build rapport.
