💡Pick your battles and know when to back off to maintain peace in the relationship.
🗣️Open and honest communication is key to resolving conflicts and avoiding secret-keeping.
🚪Setting boundaries and giving each other space during arguments can prevent escalations.
✅Forgiveness and letting go of past arguments are crucial for a long-lasting marriage.
❓The biggest mistake is not fully disclosing important information before marriage, leading to surprises and potential conflicts later on.
How do you fight fair?
—Pick your battles, know when to back off, and avoid personal attacks. Set rules and maintain a respectful tone.
How do you handle arguments?
—Open and honest communication is key. Address issues as they arise and avoid holding grudges. Practice active listening and find common ground.
What is the importance of making up?
—Reconciliation and finding common ground strengthens the bond between couples. It allows for growth, understanding, and healing in the relationship.
What is the biggest mistake before saying 'I do'?
—Not fully disclosing important information, such as finances, past relationships, or personal fears, can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts in the future.
How can conflicts be resolved?
—Resolve conflicts by being transparent, understanding each other's perspectives, and finding solutions that work for both parties. Seek professional help if needed.
00:00Introduction to the panel of opinionated married couples.
01:09Insights on fighting fair: pick your battles, know when to back off.
03:49Importance of open communication and discussing what bothers you in the relationship.
07:19Tips on handling arguments: setting rules, avoiding personal attacks, and finding common ground.
08:32Importance of forgiveness and letting go of past arguments.
09:32Common mistakes before saying 'I do': lack of full disclosure and not addressing fears and concerns.
10:22Importance of discussing hopes, dreams, and potential challenges before marriage.
13:23Handling conflicts by being transparent, practicing active listening, and finding common ground.
