🔑Obey your parents in matters concerning yourself, but not in matters involving your spouse.
🔑Extended family should not interfere in decisions that should be made between husband and wife.
🔑Establish boundaries to protect your marriage and maintain healthy relationships.
🔑Respect your spouse's autonomy and independence.
🔑Communicate openly and honestly with your in-laws about boundaries and expectations.
Should I always obey my parents' demands?
—You should obey your parents in matters concerning yourself, but not in matters involving your spouse. Establishing clear boundaries is important for a healthy marriage.
What should I do if my in-laws interfere in my marriage?
—Communicate your boundaries and expectations with your in-laws. Let them know that certain decisions should be made between you and your spouse.
How can I protect my marriage from in-law conflicts?
—Establish healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and prioritize your spouse's needs and wellbeing. Seek support from a therapist if necessary.
How do I handle my parents' expectations for having children?
—Decisions about having children should be made between you and your spouse. Communicate your plans and boundaries with your parents respectfully.
What if my in-laws disagree with our lifestyle choices?
—Respectfully communicate your values and choices to your in-laws, but ultimately, it is you and your spouse who determine your lifestyle.
00:00In-laws can sometimes wrongfully involve themselves in a marriage.
00:08It is important to establish boundaries and separate the influence of parents and in-laws.
00:39Obey your parents in matters concerning yourself, but not in matters involving your spouse.
01:01Parents should not impose demands that involve the shared decisions of the husband and wife.
01:27Extended family should not interfere in personal matters between spouses.
01:44Setting boundaries and respecting each other's autonomy is crucial in maintaining a healthy marriage.
02:00Communicate openly and honestly with in-laws about boundaries and expectations.
02:26Avoid getting involved in extended family conflicts and respect your children's autonomy.
