❤️Instead of expressing anger, focus on understanding and empathy to improve your relationship.
🌟Challenge yourself to be a better partner, even when your partner is behaving poorly.
🗣️Use positive statements to communicate your needs and wants, instead of criticism.
🌻Recognize that relationship problems are often caused by external stressors, not the relationship itself.
🌈Taking responsibility for your own happiness and actions is key to a healthier relationship.
What should I do when I feel angry in a relationship?
—Instead of expressing anger, take a step back, breathe, and try to understand what is causing the anger. Communicate your feelings calmly and find constructive ways to address the issue.
How can I improve my relationship when my partner is not meeting my needs?
—Raise the bar for yourself and focus on being the partner you want to have. Inspire your partner by showing them love and compassion, and communicate your needs in a positive and future-focused way.
What should I do if I feel hurt or disappointed in my relationship?
—Use 'I would love it if' statements to express your needs and desires in a positive way. Focus on the future and how you can work together to create a happier and more satisfying relationship.
Can these steps work for every couple and relationship problem?
—While these steps can be effective in many situations, not every relationship is salvageable. It's important to assess the overall health and happiness of the relationship and make the best decision for yourself.
How can I inspire my partner to change and improve our relationship?
—Lead by example and focus on your own personal growth. When your partner sees the positive changes you are making, they may be inspired to do the same. Open communication and empathy are also key in inspiring change.
00:00Introduction
00:10In difficult times, we can inspire each other to become better versions of ourselves in relationships.
02:27Blaming others in relationships is not productive, taking responsibility is key.
04:10Instead of anger, express your underlying feelings of hurt or disappointment.
06:01Challenge yourself to be a better partner, regardless of your partner's behavior.
07:26Use 'I would love it if' statements to express your needs and desires.
08:56Focus on improving yourself and your own happiness to inspire change in your partner.
09:45Inspiring story of Ruby and Jeff's successful relationship.
