How to Approach Going Out Alone: Expert Tips and Insights

TLDRLearn expert tips and insights on how to approach going out alone, including the importance of immediate approaches and not worrying about what others think. Get into a social mode by talking to everyone you can and reward yourself with a drink at the bar after your first approach.

Key insights

🚶‍♂️When going out alone, the number one tip is to approach immediately to overcome approach anxiety and get into social mode.

👥Don't hang by yourself, start approaching anyone you can, including bouncers, groups of guys, or people in line.

🌍Remember that people are not paying as much attention to you as you think. They're focused on themselves, not judging you.

🍹Avoid the temptation to stay at the bar. Instead, reward yourself with a drink after your first approach and continue socializing.

🔄If you've approached enough people and want to move to another venue, repeat the process of approaching and socializing.

Q&A

What is the number one tip when going out alone?

The number one tip is to approach immediately to overcome approach anxiety and get into social mode.

Should I hang by the bar or walk around when going out alone?

It's best to start approaching anyone you can and walk around the venue to socialize with different people.

What if I'm concerned about what people think of me?

Remember that people are more focused on themselves and not judging you as much as you may think.

Is it important to stay at the bar when going out alone?

No, it's recommended to reward yourself with a drink after your first approach, but continue socializing and avoid staying at the bar.

What should I do if I want to go to another venue?

If you've approached enough people and feel like moving to another venue, repeat the process of approaching and socializing.

Timestamped Summary

00:47When going out alone, the number one tip is to approach immediately.

02:36Don't hang by yourself, start approaching anyone you can.

03:05Remember that people are not paying as much attention to you as you think.

04:00Avoid staying at the bar, instead, reward yourself with a drink after your first approach.

04:55If you've approached enough people and want to go to another venue, repeat the process.