From People Pleaser to Empowered Advocate: My Journey of Finding My Voice

TLDRIn this video, I share my personal journey of going from a people pleaser to becoming an empowered advocate. Despite being a rule follower and the 'perfect daughter,' I have found my voice and now stand up for myself and others. It has been a transformative process that I never expected, but I am grateful for the support I have received along the way.

Key insights

🌟My journey from being a people pleaser to finding my voice and becoming an advocate.

🚀The unexpected transformation in my role, going from the 'golden child' to the 'black sheep.'

💔The emotional and psychological toll of a police report leak regarding my brother's investigation.

💲The financial challenges and lack of compensation I experienced from being on reality TV.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦The strained relationships with my parents and the importance of setting boundaries for my own well-being.

Q&A

Did you ever imagine your role shifting from a people pleaser to an empowered advocate?

No, I never expected my journey to take this path. It has been a transformative and empowering process.

How did the police report leak affect you?

The police report leak regarding my brother's investigation was extremely traumatic and made an already difficult situation even worse.

Why did you continue to participate in reality TV without getting compensated?

I was conditioned to think of it as a ministry and obligation rather than a source of income. It took time for me to realize my worth and advocate for fair compensation.

How do you maintain a relationship with your parents despite the challenges?

I have chosen to forgive them and establish boundaries for a healthier relationship. I try to keep my mom out of the middle and focus on being a family outside of the conflicts.

Are you resentful towards your father for his actions?

While there were hurtful moments, I have chosen to forgive and focus on moving forward with better boundaries and understanding for both sides.

Timestamped Summary

00:00Introduction: My journey from being a people pleaser to finding my voice and becoming an advocate.

09:24Sharing the emotional and psychological toll of a police report leak regarding my brother's investigation.

14:30Discussing the financial challenges and lack of compensation from being on reality TV.

22:59Exploring the strained relationships with my parents and the importance of setting boundaries for my own well-being.