El Gordo was raised by his grandmother and had minimal contact with his parents due to various circumstances.
His childhood was characterized by feelings of abandonment and a search for his biological mother.
El Gordo got involved in criminal activities at a young age and spent numerous periods of time in detention centers.
He had a desire to connect with his mother, but the reunion did not live up to his expectations.
Following his release from California Youth Authority, El Gordo became heavily involved in gang life.