Force Yourself to Get What You Want: The Power of Taking Action

TLDRMel Robbins explains the importance of taking action to get what you want and how to overcome the inertia of routine. Stop waiting to feel motivated and start forcing yourself to make positive changes in your life.

Key insights

🔥Getting what you want is simple, but not easy. You have to force yourself to take action.

💡Motivation is not something that will magically appear. You have to push yourself even when you don't feel like it.

🚀Your brain is wired for routine, but real change requires breaking out of your comfort zone.

📣Stop waiting for permission or motivation from others. Take control of your own life and make things happen.

Time is precious. Stop wasting it on complacency and start pushing yourself to achieve your goals.

Q&A

How do I force myself to take action?

Start by setting clear goals and making a commitment to yourself. Then, break down your goals into small, manageable steps and create a plan of action. Hold yourself accountable and be consistent in taking those steps, even when you don't feel like it.

What if I don't know what I want?

Take the time to explore and reflect on your desires and passions. Experiment with different activities and experiences to discover what truly excites you. Once you have a sense of what you want, start taking small steps towards that direction and adjust your course along the way.

How can I overcome the fear of change?

Fear of change is natural, but it shouldn't hold you back from pursuing your goals. Recognize that growth and progress often come through discomfort and embrace the challenge. Surround yourself with supportive people, seek guidance if needed, and celebrate your small wins to build confidence.

Is it too late for me to start pursuing my dreams?

It's never too late to start pursuing your dreams. Age is just a number, and many successful individuals have achieved their goals later in life. Focus on what you can do now and make the most of the present moment. Remember, it's better to try and fail than to regret never trying at all.

How do I stay motivated when facing obstacles?

Obstacles are a natural part of the journey towards success. To stay motivated, remind yourself of your why - the reasons why you started and the vision you have for your life. Surround yourself with positive influences, cultivate a growth mindset, and focus on your progress rather than perfection.

Timestamped Summary

00:23Mel Robbins has dedicated her life to helping people get what they want.

02:00You have to force yourself to take action to get what you want.

05:00Stop waiting to feel motivated and start taking small steps towards your goals.

10:00Your brain prefers routine, but true growth requires pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone.

13:00You are never going to feel like it, so learn to force yourself to take action.