5 Things We Wish We Knew Before Planning Our Wedding

TLDRPlanning a wedding can be stressful and overwhelming, but with these tips, you can avoid common pitfalls and make the process smoother. Prep early, try on your wedding dress before the big day, don't feel pressured to love wedding planning, navigate family politics, and remember that a smaller wedding doesn't always mean it will be cheaper.

Key insights

📅Prep early - buy white outfits and plan the details as soon as possible to avoid last-minute stress.

💍Try on your wedding dress and entire wedding outfit before the big day to ensure a perfect fit and avoid any unexpected issues.

👰‍♀️It's okay if you don't love wedding planning. It can be overwhelming, and not everyone enjoys the process. Focus on what matters most - your love for your spouse.

👥Be prepared for family politics and tensions that may arise during wedding planning. Remember that the day is about you and your spouse, and try to navigate any conflicts as peacefully as possible.

💲A smaller wedding doesn't always mean it will be cheaper. Consider all aspects of the wedding, including venue costs, decor, and other expenses, when planning your budget.

Q&A

Should I buy all white outfits for my wedding-related events?

Yes, buying white outfits for events like your bachelorette party can help you feel more festive and bridal. It's a fun way to celebrate your upcoming wedding!

Is it essential to try on my wedding dress before the wedding day?

Absolutely! Trying on your wedding dress and entire wedding outfit before the big day allows you to ensure a perfect fit and make any necessary alterations in advance.

What if I don't enjoy wedding planning?

Not everyone enjoys wedding planning, and that's perfectly okay. Focus on what matters most - your love for your spouse - and ask for support from your partner, family, or friends to make the process easier.

How can I navigate family politics during wedding planning?

Family politics can be challenging, but remember that the day is about you and your spouse. Try to communicate openly, set boundaries, and find compromises when conflicts arise. It may also help to involve a neutral third party, like a wedding planner.

Will a smaller wedding save me money?

While a smaller guest list can potentially save you money on catering and other per-guest expenses, it's important to consider all aspects of the wedding budget. Venue costs, decor, and other expenses may still contribute to the overall cost of your wedding.

Timestamped Summary

00:00Introduction: The hosts, who have both planned weddings, share their insights and tips to help others with wedding planning.

00:36Tip 1: Prep early - buy white outfits and plan the details as soon as possible to avoid last-minute stress.

02:36Tip 2: Try on your wedding dress and entire wedding outfit before the big day to ensure a perfect fit and avoid any unexpected issues.

06:11Tip 3: It's okay if you don't love wedding planning. It can be overwhelming, and not everyone enjoys the process. Focus on what matters most - your love for your spouse.

08:19Tip 4: Be prepared for family politics and tensions that may arise during wedding planning. Remember that the day is about you and your spouse, and try to navigate any conflicts as peacefully as possible.

09:20Tip 5: A smaller wedding doesn't always mean it will be cheaper. Consider all aspects of the wedding, including venue costs, decor, and other expenses, when planning your budget.